Or, you know, you could just stop saying sorry.
"i have a problem i can’t control"
"stop having that problem omg"
Hi… Gonna go all SJ here, so let me apologize in advance for that, but people who say “sorry” a lot typically say it to avoid being yelled at or treated harshly. …and in my case, it was because I had a mother who blamed me for everything and kissing her feet was the only way to dodge a beating.
So! Just so you know! I’m sure that’s not the case for everyone, but if someone apologizes frequently, then it might be because they were conditioned to be that way.
Amen to that I apologize 24/7 and apologize for even speaking, because I would get yelled at by adults constantly.
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